10. Inability to be direct or honest.

Post edited at 7:45 am on Aug. 3, 2008 by Cuddlefish

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Y'know, I think you're kinda cute.

turn offs are when a guy isn't clean. personally i like it clean and i am seriously germophobic. i constantly wash my hands and if a guys hands arent as clean as mine, i wont take them lol and its a huge turn off if they dont use deodorant. i hate the smell of b.o. but axe is a great way to cover it up.. i love the smell of axe!!

1: I man who is weaker than me. Really, if I can kick your ass, then I'm gonna kick your ass just because I can kick your ass! I don't like it.

2: Short guys. Basically under 5' 8" is too short for me [I'm 5' 4"].

3: Ambition. Well, some is fine, but too much of it bothers me to no end. [I mean, you gotta have a little, just not so much]

4: Someone gross. I can't stand people who do gross things!

5: A guy who isn't willing to give the things I like a try, when I probably would give the things he likes a try.

6: A guy who forces me to do things I'm medically incapable of doing. [EX: Going outside in the hot weather or cold weather. Or spring time...]

7: Being TOO nice. Being nice is fine but I can only stand it so much!

8: Not liking Rock/Metal/nu-Metal/Rapcore/Classic Rock. I may let a few of those slide, but don't knock it till you try it!

9: Idiots... I want a guy who is smarter than me. But if you know anything you can use in life I wouldn't classify you as an 'idiot'.

10: There is a long list of kinky things I want to try when I start having sex -- if the guy I'm with does not wish to do any of them, then well... Violent things will happen.

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Turn-Ons:

1: Being stronger than me. I love that a lot.

2: Tall men. My ideal height for a guy is 5' 11" or 6' 0". But I just love it when the men are taller.

3: When the guy has the ability to make me squirm. I don't mean in bed. I'm talking mentally. Someone who will challenge my oh-so-inflated-ego-of-authority-holding.

4: A Virgo, because I love the Zodiac stuff. Virgo's tend to be smart and clever. And since I'm a Leo, who is clever but not as smart, I bring passion and fire. Virgo's bring love, caring, and intelligence. God knows how much I need that in my life.

5: A sarcastic smart-ass! Yup, it matches my bitchy-ness perfectly if not challenges it! I'm a bitchy smart-ass so I basically want a sarcastic bastard! Now, that's not to say we can't be kind and loving to each other, I'm talking a balance of both. [It's happened]

6: A guy who likes big boobs. Considering I'm only 15, wear a 36 D, and could probably fit into a 34 D [meaning I've lost some more weight but my boobs are still the same size]. And I'm STILL growing! So gotta love or at least like the big boobs - I do and they are attached to me and they hurt like hell sometimes. But such a good thing in the end.

7: Understanding that I'm Asexual and lack a sex drive. So I won't do anything I consider to be too sexual.

8: Knowing that I am medically ill and cannot do many things because of it. Also knowing that I really just can't help it. Can't help it if I'm always sleepy and my legs hurt almost all the time. I take medication and that's all I can do.

9: Knowing me and understanding me. It takes time, I know, but I can wait. I want a guy to understand that I have trouble trusting others and attaching myself to others because I was mentally and physically abused by my classmates for 7 to 9 1/2, depending on where you wanna start. Not to mention being Socially Rejected by everybody as well as abused. Love does not come easily to me and when i do love, I need that person. [Needless to say it's only happened once and I still have him... After my abuse stopped that is]

10: Just to be there. We don't have to be making out or anything. Just to be there when I need him is more than enough.

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I didn't mention some things on both lists because, well, I'm not having sex yet! And I didn't feel like it. So in case people were wondering at all, that's why.

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My will is stronger than most, I will not let you get close.
Until I think that you deserve me. Cause that's a no go.

Turn offs:
1.) Arrogance. Think you own the world? Get away, fast.
2.)Pressure. Don't try to control me or put a leash on me - it can't be done.
3.) Shyness. If you are a mute, I doubt I'll ever leave my own shell.
4.) Stupidity. I'm on my way to Dartmouth, I have no time for the mentally challenged.
5.) Chest hair. Easy enough.
6.) Rich. OK, it's not a turn off entirely, but if you rub it in, I will run from you. Don't buy me things, I don't want them.
7.) No direction. Hey, I like adventure, but at least have a few goals in life!
8.) No sense of self. If you don't know who you are, I probably can't help you.
9.) Lists things. If you are slightly OCD, and plan dinner three nights ahead, I'm out of there.
10.) Over protective. I need to live my own life too.

Hey, this is a good idea. Will I find somebody who meets my list? Maybe... but nobody is perfect! It's still good to have goals though.